Gettin Better....I Hope

Me and Deb spent the day in the bedroom yesterday. We were just enjoyin each other's company. We're really working on getting bac to where we belong. Our cart should be fixed by Tuesday so that'll hewlp a lotta things to be able to get out and away from the house. We enjoy being able to drive just to drive. Hope is a funny thing. It gives you an outlook that can't be matched by anything else. We hope and hope, in this life, in order to get by some days. It's hard just watching life go by when there's nothing else to do. I spend a lkot of time on my puter and so does she but we still chat on yahoo msgr so we're almost always talking to each other. We bitch about the kids or life in general or we just keep reminding each other how much we Love each other. It's nice to be reminded of Love but actions speak louder than words for most men. It's not just the words that count but every little thing a woman does for us. We try to give as much as we get but if we get nothing it's hard to give. They say a woman will multiply what you give her and that goes for men too. If you're not willing to give your all in a relationship then you don't belong in it in the first place. Talking to your partner is a good way to get things going in the right direction. If something's bothering you about your partner then how are they going to know it if you don't tell them? It's really not good to save that kind of stuff up for a later date either. If it's bugging you then holding it in will just be counterproductive when you finally do get around to talking about it. Emotional responces get all blown out of hand when you can't see anything but the problems. I talk to Deb all the time. I don't bottle things up till I can't act instead of react. It's a communication thing. I do save some things till the right time and sometimes there is no right time so it's time when it's time. If you're not willing to bring out the bad things then how do you expect to be able to see the good things and deal with them in a positive manner? Be kind to your partner and talk often.

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